I used to be the poster child for self-sabotage. Honestly, no one had to bring me down—I did that job perfectly well on my own. “I am not good enough.” That sentence wasn’t just a thought; it was a narrative I lived, a truth I believed deep in my soul.
I grew up measuring my worth against the successes and expectations of others. And every time I fell short (at least in my own eyes), it chipped away at my self-esteem. Slowly, those expectations didn’t just hurt my confidence—they drained the value I placed on my own life.
But here’s the beautiful part: I don’t live in that space anymore. Today, I see life through a completely different lens. I’m hopeful, expectant, and more effective than I have ever been. Not because life magically shifted, but because I made the choice to cultivate a healthy, positive mindset.
When You Stop Fighting Yourself, You Start Living
It hasn’t been easy. Growth is slow. It demands patience. But this journey has taught me something invaluable: our biggest enemy isn’t always the world around us—it’s the battle within us. What we believe about ourselves shapes everything: how we love, how we dream, how we live.
And now? The quality of life I experience is worlds apart from where I started. The difference is this—I believe in myself. And I live out that belief, one day at a time. Growth is a process. And in embracing that process, I’ve learned that true self-love isn’t selfish—it’s transformational.
Join me as we explore the different ways we sabotage ourselves and discover practical, grace-filled ways to reset and rise. Learning together to choose self-support over self-sabotage because when we choose growth, we choose freedom.